>>You want to look extra-ordinary. Why? Because you want to enjoy the situation of being different than other.
>> You want to play game because you want to enjoy the situation of being successful player.
>> You want to make girlfriend (or boyfriend) because you want to enjoy the situation of being loved.
>> You want to have some types of relationship with someone to enjoy the respective situation.
>> You want to make big success in business to enjoy the situation of being successful than other.
And so on.
Not only you, has everyone tried for this. In each of the above cases the central point is our enjoying mentality. Actually we become blind by jealousness and eventually being directed by lust we search the situation when and where we can enjoy fully. In each case we want to show us superior to other. We get satisfaction to see the failure of other and success of own. We are misdirected in this point.
Despite of our hard effort to enjoy something we never become successful to enjoy that. It is because we do it in wrong way. If hands need energy then we have to provide food to stomach via mouth first. Only then hands can get energy. If hands are jealous with stomach and only try to directly feed then hands will never get energy. It is because it is possible to feed hands only by providing food to stomach first but not directly to hands. Here, supreme enjoyer is God (Krishna) . He is the source of everyone’s enjoyment. Thus if we want to really enjoy something then we have to totally dedicate it to Krishna. We have to make Krishna happy. Only then we can get the portion of enjoyment. Thus Vedic scriptures clearly state that: